v21 and the io_uring slaughterhouse

With more features added, more optimizations and more examples working properly, here's the current performance metrics comparing uWS v21 against latest denoland/fastwebsockets v0.4.2. As an aside, uWS can now do URL routed HTTP requests at 350k req/sec, which is even faster than what an optimized epoll server can do raw TCP echoing (325k msg/sec) on this machine. Just think about that for a moment - uWS is serving standards compliant HTTP faster than you could do even raw TCP a few years ago. Mind blown.